To submit is to deconstruct
& expand
How to Approach Me
There are a multitude of ways to enter a session.
I am interested in ways which go beyond the sensorial.
I bring to this role a plethora of perspectives, experiences, lives lived, deep study whereby I have developed a language of encounter. Our first meeting is a lesson in that language, be receptive.
To get the most out of an experience with me you need to step forward:
Inspire me, Trust my expertise, Let go, Invest, Respond to and respect but subjective point of view
I am interested in ways which go beyond the sensorial.
I bring to this role a plethora of perspectives, experiences, lives lived, deep study whereby I have developed a language of encounter. Our first meeting is a lesson in that language, be receptive.
To get the most out of an experience with me you need to step forward:
Inspire me, Trust my expertise, Let go, Invest, Respond to and respect but subjective point of view
PHILOSOPHY, STYLE & BIOGRAPHY
I bring over seven years of international professional experience and a much longer personal history in BDSM.
My sessions are creative, luxurious, and existential. They inlcude spontaneous, surprising moments that impart wit, perception, and space for self reflection. My combination of experience in philosophy, psychology, cultural theory and art has influenced my BDSM practise by stoking an ability to look deeply, in order to create space for each new felt exploration.
My continuing training includes:
* Shibari as a lifelong study, training under numerous master level teachers including Masasaki Sun, Mistress Chiaki and Tamandua.
* Workshops on erotic hypnosis and pressure points.
* Training towards the German Heilpraktiker für Psychotherapie licence (Arche Medica).
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My favoriate kinds of sessions include: Psychological Submission & Altered States: I create experiences that shift your perception through disorientation, emotional sadism, surreal scenarios, trance...
Creative Pain & Sadism: My sadism is joyful, attunded and experimental Rope & Predicament bondage: I have a particular interest in Yukimura style shibari
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Shibari /Psychological submission training / Needle Play / CBT / NS (Golden Shower) / Tease & Denial / Chastity / Abduction scenarios / Bondage / Sensory deprivation / Anal Training / Strap-on / Deep-throat Training / Dominant GV / Dominant OV / Ball Busting / Pet Play / Physical Humiliation / Psychological Humiliation / Medical Inspection / Feminisation / Slut training / Face-sitting / Foot Worship / Heel / Boot Worship / Forced bi / Ruined Orgasms / Torture / Spanking / Cuckolding / Milking / Urethra play / Face slapping / Spitting / Sissyplay / Nylons / Latex / Leather / Trampling / Public Play (for long term connections) / Dirty games / Electrical play / Duo domination / Impact play / Catheter Play / Couples / Beginners / Experienced*
I grew up going to theatre school directing plays, training in dance and acting, before studying politics and philosophy, and later photography, art and cultural studies.I have worked as a photographer and artist, collaborating with performance artists (which led to modelling and performing in high-end commercial music videos). I have run project spaces, collectives, reading groups and art events, curating exhibitions and developing interactive installations. I have received arts funding and exhibited and published internationally in beautiful and widely visited spaces.
In recent years I have begun writing short stories and experimental essays using poetic prose and philosophical, psychological and cultural reflection (see my substack for subscriptions). I have also built a large Polaroid archive documenting my life. I am active with maintaining a strong body and perfecting a roundhouse kick.